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How to Tease Your Lover

Chiara Bradshaw
· · Updated Jan 16, 2026 · 2 min read
After partners have been together for a long time, it can be hard to keep the fire burning. Teasing is a good way to play with a partner. After all, we all want what we can’t have, even if we know it’s make believe.

Here’s how to tease your lover and his or her attention to the benefit of both you and your partner.

 

5 Steps To Tease Your Lover

How to Tease Your Lover

 

1. Perform A Striptease, During Which Your Partner İs Allowed Only To Look And Not Touch

This can sometimes be a little awkward, but remember that your partner thinks you are more attractive than you do. Play a little soft music and move your body until your partner can’t resist you any longer. Display all of the self-confidence and desire you can, and your partner will lose control.

 

2. Allow Your Partner To Find You İn A State Of Undress When He Or She İs Not Expecting İt

This can be even more exciting if you do so in a place and time when getting together is not an option. He or she will have to wait for you, and this will drive your lover crazy.

 

3. Think Of A Secret Word And İnform Your Partner That He Will Not Succeed İn His Pursuit Until He Says İt

If you think of a really good word, this can take a long time. If you don’t want to tease your partner too much, try “the.” If you want to tease your partner a lot, try “pomegranate.”

 

4. Keep Quiet And Force Your Lover To Communicate With You Only Through Touch

Your partner will want to simply tell you what he or she wants, but you can get both of your engines running by making your partner show you instead.

 

5. Give Your Partner Romantic Gifts He Or She Will Not Find Until Getting Together With You İsn’t An Option

Slip a love note into your partner’s lunch. After discovering it, your partner will spend the rest of his day thinking about what it will be like to finally make his way home to you.

 

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Chiara Bradshaw

Chiara Bradshaw has been writing for a variety of professional, educational and entertainment publications for more than 12 years. Chiara holds a Bachelor of Arts in art therapy and behavioral science from Mount Mary College in Milwaukee.

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