How to Have a Christian Wedding Night

Many true Christians still choose to wait until they are married before they engage in intercourse or any other type of sexual acts. This is meant to preserve their bodies as a gift to each other and to retain their purity for their chosen life mates.

Traditionally, Christians reserved sexual acts only as a means to procreate. This negated any reasoning to engage in sexual acts before marriage.

 

5 Steps to Have a Christian Wedding Night

 

Get to Know one Another

Courtship leading up to marriage is a time when a couple can get to know each other without the constraints of a physical relationship.

Many churches consider a premature physical relationship to devalue the actual relationship by creating a false bond between partners.

 

Get to Know Yourself

It is best to understand your body and learn to love and appreciate your own body before sharing it with someone else.

This is not suggesting that you masturbate or perform any acts that you are not comfortable with. It is merely stating that it is best if you understand what is pleasurable to you.

 

Visit a Doctor

Before the big night it is best to visit a gynecologist to have an examination. If you are not ready to become a parent, this is a good time to discuss contraception methods.

However, if you are ready to take on the responsibility of parenthood, then discuss this with your doctor as well. This is also a great time to get tested for genetic conditions that can be passed on to your offspring.

 

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Get Married

The act of marriage bonds a couple together and makes sex an acceptable and safe act between the couple.

The institution of marriage is meant to preserve sexual purity and to prevent unwanted pregnancies and the spread of disease.

 

Do the Deed or Don’t Do the Deed

Often in Christian weddings, the wedding night is reserved as the first sexual contact between a husband and wife. However, many religions still hold firm in the belief that sex is a tool for procreation only. If you are not ready for children and this is your belief, then it is possible to wait for sex until you are ready to procreate.

This is often an archaic belief and most couples that abstain before marriage reserve their wedding night as their first sexual contact. Remember to be patient with each other and take time to get to know each other’s bodies.

Discover what you like and what you do not like and learn to reciprocate pleasure with your spouse.

 

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